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burcher

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2011-02-08 15-07-49

Kinky talks that went bad, please share.... Anyone ever share their kinky desires with their boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, whatever, and you regretted it?
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2011-02-09 1-43-32-

I've never regretted a talk, kinky or otherwise I mentioned my interest in bondage to a woman I was dating. She was open to being spanked, but not to be tied up or to tying me up. Yet, I did not regret revealing my interest to her even though it wasn't returned. In fact, I'm grateful for the fact that we talked because it showed me that we were not as compatible as I'd like so we were able to move on from there to people we are more compatible with.
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  • beadling

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    2011-02-09 10-29-05

    I've only regretted NOT discussing it, or at least discussing it sooner. I've had some wasted time in arguments over what each of us wanted because we didn't lay it out in the beginning.
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    2011-02-10 5-16-03-

    ^^^^this.
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    beil

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    2011-02-10 8-46-38-

    I did not regret it at all but a long, line time ago, the first hubby used to go to the video store on fridays and rent a porn or two. He would always ask me what I wanted to see and I always said to get something bondage themed. So he finally did and boy, was I happy! the first 10 or 15 minutes of the flick was awesome. Then they started whipping her feet. Prior to that flick I did not know people would do that. It was a total turn off for me and I told him clearly that he would not be touching me at all that night.
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    kendrick

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    2011-02-10 13-41-33

    kerr that's gota be a first a guy that DOESNT want to spank his S/O? Weird.
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    I doubt it! and I do not find it weird that someone, anyone anywhere, doesn't like to do whatever it is that I like to do. I have been having this discussion a lot lately with my offspring - we find ourselves marveling at people being suprised when they find that we all do things a bit (or a lot) differently...how is that becoming something revolutionary lately? Do we not all know that we all are different in some ways!
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    2011-02-11 11-41-43

    well terr, cum here ill spank ya lol
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  • bruns

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    2011-02-11 13-06-21

    when someone offers to spank me with an "lol" at the end of the sentence...well somehow that just killed my whole desire to be spanked right now! ;-)
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    2011-02-11 15-54-43

    well sorry...how bout an angry face ha!
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    2011-02-11 19-23-52

    no thanks since I am in California and you are in Tennessee, a real (hard and mean) spanking is an impossibility. But thank you for the offer of a cyber-spanking ;-)
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    2011-02-12 12-29-59

    note to self .... stop off and spank terr the next time I am in CA ...
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    2011-02-22 2-31-21-

    My wife had worries of inadequacy when I brought up kink at one point. She felt that me wanting to do different things meant she wasn't good enough. It took a bit to settle that one but now she understands I just wanted to expand a little. Also one time when I brought up the idea of the threesome she freaked. She didn't freak the other times we talked about threesomes and even discussed who we might pick. But this time I mentioned it at the wrong time on the wrong day and she freaked out. I haven't brought that topic back up since. Then there are the times it goes wrong but you may not notice. So about 4yrs ago me and my wife were watching a show on sex and it kept saying communication is key, communicate, communicate. It made a lot of sense and was very similar to what many say in here. So I decided that night was a good night to ask for a snowball, I had thought about it a lot but never said anything to my wife. She flat out refused. She doesn't remember the exchange but I do. And I didn't try to open up more communication about sex until 3 1/2yrs later just prior to showing up here. Things like this can happen without the other person knowing because sometimes a small event will stick with one person and effect their behavior.
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  • Anya

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    2011-03-01 11-35-15

    I had that happen once It was not the threesome part that freaked me out but that he thought it should be with my best friend. He crossed a line that he simply could not see. Huge fight stemmed from his bringing up that specific kink.
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    Dwayne

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    2011-03-26 19-41-50

    It can be dangerous territory Every person has all of those unspoken rules and lines in their head. And some are touchy to even mention. This is especially true when it comes to sex. So it is easy sometimes to take the wrong step and cross a line you didn't know existed.
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    whitledge

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    2011-08-14 6-35-30-

    Sure, I've had a few that went too far too fast. The problem mostly was that my idea of kink and her were different. When she started the conversation about adding kink her idea was "talk dirty to me". My idea was "on your knees slave!" So it turned her off to the idea and then took some time before she decided to discuss it again. I would suggest going slow. Talk about it a little, then try some. Talk some more, try some more. Your kink could turn her off.
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  • lucia

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    2012-02-07 18-03-54

    EX asked me to Talk dirty to her, I am really bad at it, she had to stop the first time to laugh at me, I did not try after that. Not sure if that is what you meant "going bad"
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    caler

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    2012-11-18 14-16-29

    That sounds like going bad I think some of those incidents are the worst because thattime may stick with you forever and make you unwilling to try something. But the other person may forget about and have no idea why you are so hesitant about doing something.
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    Yep, for sure You do not know if the response was a hard NO, or just s spur of the moment flippant quip
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