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vath

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2011-02-08 15-03-54

How do I feel loved? This is my first post. I'm new to the forum and have been in watch/read-only mode the last couple of months just trying to figure life out. (BTW - several of you ladies are VERY insightful !!) Read the that sobergal posted over the weekend about feeling love and that compelled me enough to climb over the fence and post a reply... How do I feel loved? I could really care less about the gifts or material things. e.g. Flowers, Candy on Valentines day, Cards, Jewlery, etc. Actually I think I am so picky sometimes that I would just prefer to get/buy what I really want myself so it truly is what I wanted. Not such a great thing when someone who loves you thinks you will feel loved if they buy you a lot of things. Cards are okay and I know you have to make the effort to find the right card, but really -- it's just someone else's writing/thoughts and not really coming from the heart/mind/soul of the person who bought it. What makes me feel loved is when I get a phone or an email or a txt msg out of no where just to say hi - I'm thinking about you!… or I miss you!… how was your day?… and you know in your heart it is genuine. It's nice to read it in writing via email/txt, but when I actually HEAR it verbally, it makes me melt inside. I feel loved when they make an effort to go out of their way to stop by my house and see me - for no particular reason but just because it's the middle of the week and maybe they won't see me until the weekend otherwise - when they will go to dinner or a movie with me, etc., not with a big group of people but just with me. When someone remembers a previous conversation we had where I managed to communicate part of my true feelings or beliefs about something - because I very rarely really open up and share my inner soul with people - so if they can remember something about the conversation when I did that, it makes me feel important and loved. When someone makes the effort to remember stupid things / activities that are probably less important to me but remembers details about it - I feel loved. When someone uses my name throughout a conversation, it makes me feel important - it's not just a random conversation but someone is actually engaged in the conversation talking to me.
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dement

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2011-02-09 4-50-10-

Feel Loved Part 2 A small hand written note… from the heart… using your name, telling you they enjoyed the time you spent together or that they adore you and miss you - who wouldn't feel loved by that? As much as gifts are basiy meaningless to me, I feel loved when I am able to buy something for someone I love and it's something they REALLY wanted but for whatever would not or could not buy. I feel loved when they look at me saying thank you and you can see the heart-felt look in their eyes showing how much they appreciate you at that moment in time. Anytime you can do something special for someone you love, like running some errands, helping them in someway that they really need help and again you see that look in their face showing how much they appreciated what you just did - I feel loved. When actions and inter-actions with someone makes me feel there is total honesty in the relationship - I feel loved. If there is something they do not want to talk about or tell me and they say "I'd rather not talk about it" -- I feel loved because I know they just made a decision to be honest instead of lie about something to me. I feel loved when someone really opens up and tells me some hurtful past experiences - because I know they now trust me and I know how hard it is for 'me' to do that. I feel loved when someone softly rubs the palm of my hand and engages in eye contact when we are talking…. It's always nice to have more intimacy than that, but just something as simple as softly rubbing my palm or forearm and I feel loved...
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2011-02-09 22-53-57

Welcome Glad you decided to step over and post. It's nice to have new people and new perspectives. I've been crazily busy so I don't have as much time as I did in the past to post, but this cyberspace place has provided me with many laughs and support over the last few years.
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Carolan

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2011-02-10 13-18-37

Welcome*)!!!!! I feel loved when I open myself up and don't reject the world. Nice first post- welcome*)!!!!!!!!! Sincerely, Sarah
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2011-02-11 5-48-17-

Welcome here! Great post! Thank you~ ♥
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Terza

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2011-02-11 14-36-53

Welcome! and i enjoyed your post. We have alot of things in common it seems. I appreciate your positiveness, its a good thing! Keep it going!
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2011-02-12 2-53-51-

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