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kohrs

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2011-02-08 16-49-37

Asking someone out looking for some advice if you have it... I am interested in getting to know this grrl that works at this coffeehouse I go to before work. Usually I'm pretty reserved,quiet and lately very stressed by my corp. job, yet I try to make small talk with the staff, this girl, just to be friendly and less reserved. From what I know, we're close in age (< 1 year) and both originally same part of the state, have some art/theater things in common. Recently I haven't been going for coffee due to my changed work hours - however i did go in this past friday, and she was there. I said hello as usual and we chatted briefly....as she was finishing it up, she asked me if I had anything fun planned for weekend...stupid me I mumbled something about being stressed about work (wrong answer)....i was tongue-tied and said the 1st thing that came to mind. I really like this girl (butterflies in the stomach and the works..). Question: is it appropriate for me to ask her out while she's on the 'job' so to speak? How can I know if she's just doing her job or if there is something more behind her friendly demeanor? (I used to work at a coffeehouse and don't want to make her feel uncomfortable but would really like to know her better.) Unfortunately,I have not seen her out at the same venues so trying to ask her out someplace else other than her work is difficult. Help me!
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Yutaka

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2011-02-09 3-25-29-

Re: asking someone out... one additional note...I've been going to this coffeehouse for well over 2 years...this grrl worked there maybe 6 months (not sure...); we've been chatting off and on maybe 2 months time?
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2011-02-09 6-51-08-

Ask how her weekend went Asking a barista/waitress/etc. goes like this: 1. small talk about the weather/food/etc. 2. small talk about yourselves (how are you doing?) 3. small talk about your lives outside the coffeehouse in particular (anything fun planned this weekend?) 4. not-so-small talk about lives outside the coffeehouse (so what did you do this weekend?) 5. talk about shared interest outside the coffeehouse (Oh you went rock climbing? I love rock climbing!) 6. invitation to join said activity (want to go rock climbing with me this weekend?) or get food/drink after work (when do you get off? Would you like to go have mojitos?) You're on step 3. Go back to the coffeehouse, ask about her weekend, and use the clues from that to steer the conversation towards a shared interest as set up to asking her to join you.
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2011-02-09 9-26-53-

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  • heydon

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    2011-02-09 9-29-42-

    yes, but I'm chicken I never ask out the cute coffee girl
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    humfrey

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    2011-02-09 10-53-28

    well, if you followed your own protocol and it didn't lead to the right moment, it's prolly not meant to be. and if you got rejected you'd have to go somewhere else for coffee....i would anyway
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  • noguchi

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    2011-02-09 16-09-45

    stalk her find out when her break is and chat her up. worked for me twice. and I still get to go the coffee shop.
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    coull

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    2011-02-10 9-01-28-

    worked twice out of how many attempts? and more importantly, were any restraining orders filed against you?
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    2011-02-10 23-35-56

    I was lucky. 2 for 2 No restraining order and I made a friend. The other flaked on our date and I never saw here there again. Think I freaked her out enough to quit her job? ha! awesome.. But that's okay, she was like 12.
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