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polcyn

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2012-02-19 22-25-07

Ponderings I live in the south. Deep down here. We have one lesbian bar and it is not much bigger than the bathroom at my house. They have recently expanded, but I haven't been there since they have. I had a peroid of a few months that I was going every Saturday to go sing bad Keoake, but I noticed something. The bar always had the same x woman in it. They swapped girlfriends over and over. Karen fought Jessica for Carrie until Carrie dumped Jessica for Karen who dumped Carrie for Jessica. (These were made up names, but you know what I mean) I thought that it was because they were young and immature, but one day I went on a weekday. I needed a drink and didn't want to handle being a chick alone in a straight bar so I stopped at the lesbian bar on the way home. I ordered a drink and listened to this x year old woman moaning about the same thing that the x year old lezzies do. It scared the hell out of me. I haven't been back in more than a year. I apologize for the length of my post, but I think of this because I saw one of those various lesbians I killed time with when I first came out and discovered myself...and she is still doing the same things. Still saying every gf is her "soulmate" and she never knew love until she meet "insert name". Yet she breaks up with them after a few months for whatever reason. I was terrified I was the lone lesbian who couldn't and wouldn't fall in and out of love in two weeks, who didn't drink beer, I never met a lesbian who enjoyed to read. But maybe all areas aren't as bad as the south. The only place to meet a lesbian here is a bar. That's it. Talk about encouraging alcoholism. Also, I think that the lesbians here, especially ones that were obvious from a young age, have been taught to hate themselves. IN the bible belt we are taught that what we feel and our sexual instincts are sins that will throw us straight into the pit of hell. Maybe with this constant bombardment of our evils certain lesbians have unsurfaced psychological damage that through "drama" they can push down. As if focusing on these truely inconsequential things that they get soooo upset about they don't have the time to examine themselves. If anyone has taken the time to muddle through my verbal diarrea I would love to get some thoughts on this mr.
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lewellen

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2012-11-30 13-04-58

I live in Philly and we are a city of x million people. We havelesbian bar. Down in Florida where I am from I can walk in "the bar" (whichever bar the girls home these days) and see folks that I came out with, or that were there when I came out all doing the same things they were doing back then. I assure you there are other places to meet lesbians. It may seem impossible but there are lesbians like you that do not want to go to the bar and meet the same x girls. They just might even be at barns and noble buying books or at the library.
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2013-10-23 5-02-21-

Is it like this everywhere? I don't need to meet any I'm in a very wonderful relationship, we haven't been togethor that long but I really care for her. I meet her at Elchico's of all places. I spend alot of time at the libraries, and barnes and noble is a weekly trip for me. The thing is I had to learn to confront people. Noone ever thinks I'm a lesbian. To me it's obvious, but to anyone around here unless you are at that bar, then you have to have rainbows tatooed across your forhead. What I'm really wondering is why- Why do they share woman like t-shirts?
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  • gualdoni

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    Yeah some women are like that and they reside in every place on the planet. There might not be as much sharing as you think. As I said I can go home and see some of the same girls that were there x-x years ago doing the same stuff. They will be there forever. But the rest moved on, went places, even if some stayed in town. If you are looking for friends go out do things and you will find like minded lesbians there doing those things too. My wife does not look gay either and neither do all of our friends. Life is what you make of it.
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    webster

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    2014-10-28 6-32-31-

    Women who read can be found in a variety of locations including, but not exclusively, libraries, bookstores and coffee shops. Also, public transit is an ideal place for reading. I bet there are queer women in your city who have never been to the bar.
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    2015-08-24 21-21-30

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    2015-10-06 9-58-06-

    Not the south. My town I just didn't want to say the cities name. I hate the outdoors. And you canall you want you want from this city and the only thing you will come up with is "Central (gay bar) and "Neverland" (gay bar). I'm not bitter. I just think it's sad. I went to college. I met a few people there. I don't need a girlfriend. I just would like more lesbians I relate too.
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  • thornsbury

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    2015-11-18 18-29-03

    what about the closest pride to volunteer... or start up your own womens pot luck, or you would be surprised at the strong and not so strong capable women who volunteer for habitat. and perhaps look at what you want in life, where you live and see if it fits? perhaps a larger city close to where you are may offer more options. Sometimes a move is a uplifting and life challenging motivational positive :D
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    gluckman

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    We don't have public transit Or very very little of it. For a city of this size we really have no sort of way to get around. And don't get me wrong I don't hate where I live, and am open to your suggestions. I just want some insight on the mentality of that lifestyle. I just like to know things and understand them.
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