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Maggi

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2011-02-08 18-29-36

Thoughts? I recognize at least some of the behaviors described in the articles. I know that I speak in a much different manner than I write. I was reading something that Bondage_Girl sent me the other night while I was on the phone with her and she commented that I took on a completely different tone of voice. She ed me professorial *grins*. I wonder if people change their speech habits depending on the groups they're with.
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2011-02-09 13-05-52

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2011-02-10 7-36-44-

I haven't really noticed the rude verbal tone What I have noticed is how remarkably poor the social skills are of many fans. I have had to send out party invitations with end-times stated because so many fans can't figure out when it's time to leave. I've also had to state specifiy that if anyone ever shows up unreasonably early (anything earlier than, say 10-15 minutes), I will NOT let them in. Apparently fans do not understand that there is no such thing as fashionably early. Furthermore, it's presumptuous to assume one's presence is going to be wanted to "help". I once had 4 guests show up HOURS EARLY who expected me to entertain them. WTF? I've also had to state specificially on invitations for dinner parties that if a dinner time is stated, dinner is going to start at that time. Period. I am NOT going to wait 1 hour for people who can't get their ass to a dinner party on time. I'm not even going to wait more than 20 minutes. Then there are those who offer Too Much Information or ask for Too Much Information. Here's an actual conversation I had at a con 6 years ago with a fan I had just met. "Hello. Nice to met you. Ummm, sorry, but you know what? I don't want to hear about your bowel movement issues. No, I'm not interested in discussing whether or not I have been through menopause - I'm only 40, and I don't look that old. But, hey, thanks for implying that I do. What? I don't care if menstruation is a natural body function. My body functions are none of your concern." I also wish that some fans would learn when it's time to take a bath. As much as I love fans, I don't want to have to smell them.
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  • Raul

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    2011-02-10 16-35-03

    If you hang with fans, perhaps it's less noticeable for you :) I was particularly struck by the hypothesis that perhaps some of the verbal behaviors that might come across to other people as rude could be related to speaking in "written English". I thought that was an interesting concept and I felt that it rang true to at least some extent. I don't think anyone would argue that fans are the most socially well-adjusted group :) Thankfully most of the ones that I've met have been at least aware of basic hygiene.
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    rylan

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    2011-02-10 18-32-12

    what is minicon? what is fanspeak?
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    goertzen

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    2011-02-11 10-58-49

    who are the people you're talking about? it sounds like you think we should know who they are and be familiar with what you're talking about. Did you maybe post this in the wrong forum?
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  • desormeaux

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    2011-02-11 12-21-09

    Yeah, it's OT I didn't write it, I just found it and thought it was interesting. Often there's a fair bit of overlap between the kink community and the fandom community so I went ahead and posted it.
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    mordecai

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    2011-02-11 19-26-09

    maybe just a link next time? I know we have the choice to read it ... but I read the whole thing thinking eventually it'd link back to kink, given it's posted here ... but it didn't. I would have given up sooner if I'd been reading it on another website. That way you also cite the author, rather than make it seem like you wrote it, which is what I assumed. I kept wondering where the "article" was.
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    marinaro

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    2011-02-12 12-32-49

    It was on someone's personal page with other personal info. I figured discretion was better in this case. I could have found another place to host the page, I suppose but it seemed like less work to just repost it. Sorry! :) It hits my geek/language/social behavior buttons and I wanted to share.
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  • mcghie

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    2011-02-17 6-06-16-

    it's generally not good practice to post something written by someone else without a citation, regardless of how interesting it is. Sorry -- hits a hot button of mine. I'd be kicked out of grad-school for something like that.
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    Cordie

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    2011-04-02 1-49-44-

    amen to that. Also sucks to have your own work appropriated and not cited.
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    oesterling

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    2011-06-13 9-28-49-

    Maybe not quite as much as you had thought. BB likes to read Sci-Fi, but I had to google, too. I'm also not sure I agree with the whole thing. I've met plenty of fans of sci-fi, whether it be books or movies/shows, that wouldn't know how to speak in complete sentences if they were reading aloud, and most certainly don't enunciate extra carefully. Actually, I'm a bit put off that you would lump us all in the same category. I tend to think of kinkies as just that. Different people, from different backgrounds, who happen to enjoy sexual things that seem to be out of the norm.
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    brucato

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    2011-06-22 8-09-51-

    I don't lump everyone into the same category But I do feel there's crossover between different communities. It's certainly been true in my own personal experience. That doesn't mean that someone from community will be part of another, but it provides additional points of commonality at times.
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    hunsucker

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    2011-11-08 21-16-27

    Ok, gotcha. *smooch*
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  • rondon

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    2012-07-09 11-10-51

    Maybe not so OT If you generalize it, you could wonder what traits might be found in the kinkland that would not carry over into the mundain world. I'd really like to hear obersvations from a munch.
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