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2011-02-08 16-40-13

Masturbation: Secretive or Open How open or secretive are you about masturbation? Do you try to hide and hope you won't get caught when you masturbate? Do you tell your SO when you are going masturbate or how often you masturbate? Do you masturbate in front of them frequently? So me personally I am not completely comfortable masturbating in front of my wife. We have done is several times when we are fooling around and that is fine. But when I need to jerk and she isn't interested in sex then I don't usually do it in front of her. I tend to sneak off to do it. Now if she catches me that isn't a problem, I have always had the fantasy that she would catch me and give me a hand. But I would
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2011-02-09 9-06-07-

3 words: loving, tender, alone......LOL No I don't hide it, & I will "perform" on request.
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2011-02-10 4-12-57-

But you prefer to do it alone or do you tend to do it alone? Now I only hide it when the are around. If the are asleep then I just wander off to the bedroom or something to do it rather than whip it out on the couch while watching tv with the wife.
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  • herbert

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    2011-02-10 18-04-55

    No I prefer the audience Which is probably 50% of the time.
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    2011-02-11 3-35-09-

    Pretty Much the same I'll perform upon request, but prefer my alone time. I have a netbook I only wath porn on because of viruses.
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    2011-02-11 7-11-18-

    I am pretty secretive about it. He knows I do it obviously. But I don't report to him when I do. And I have been known to lie on occasion.
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    2011-02-11 19-29-13

    I definitely don't report when I do it I will answer when asked usually. Some how I have the feeling my wife would be shocked at the frequency that I masturbate and I honestly don't think she really wants to know. But on the occasions when she has asked how often or something like that I will answer.
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    2011-02-12 2-50-24-

    Why do you have to lie about how often you masturbate?
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    2011-02-12 22-56-26

    Hmm, I guess it would depend on the mood of the situation? I am very open at masturbating while my partner watches. I actually find it extremely hot when my partner does too. Mutual masturbation, etc. But those are times where we both are interested in sex and playtime. If I just need to wank, due to a physical need more than anything (like, I use it to vent and cool off, or as a sleep aid...) then I may sneak around, although I haven't had to so far... *knock on wood* Most of the partners I've had wouldn't mind if I did it in front of them and they weren't in the mood for sex. Of course, that may have put them in the mood afterwards...
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    2011-02-13 19-53-14

    For me it feels strange for me to jerk in front of my wife if she isn't interested in sex at all. I just figure she doesn't want to watch that when not interested in sex. Whereas mutual masturbation is fun or she has done it in front of me when she isn't interested in any more than masturbating. I enjoyed that but she knows I am ALWAYS down with ANYTHING sexual.
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    2011-02-14 19-20-47

    I guess pretty much Im just like you, I like sex, I can't really think of a situation where I wouldn't want sex with my partner, unles it involves serious sickness or death. lol Even if I have a cold, I want to fuck. It tends to make me feel better!! If a partner wasn't interested in sex, and sattes he doesn't want to watch me wank, then fine...I guess I'll go in the bathroom and do it there... but I haven't encountered anyone that has stated that just yet. Then again, I haven't been married for years and stuff. It probably influences those decisions...
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    2011-03-09 20-20-25

    Would you ask if they wanted to watch first? Or would you just inquire about sex then assume if they don't want sex they don't want to watch you masturbate?
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    2011-07-05 3-24-17-

    I think I would offer and initiate sex (if that was the case) and if I see they have no interest, I'd candidly say I'll go and take care of it myself, and if they wat to watch...... all without pressuring my partner. If they say no, I know my way to the bathroom. If the say yes, then I play and finish and if it eventually leads to more, then it does, if not, then I roll over and sleep. :)
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    2011-09-24 23-03-25

    I guess for me I feel like if I say "I will take care of it myself" then I think it will make her feel bad about it. My wife can be sensitive about implications of failure and I think she would see me saying something like that as pointing out her failure. So if she isn't interested in sex then I may do it just I don't say it.
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    2012-04-21 12-24-38

    I am always open with partners about the fact that I do it. I don't necessarily announce it when I'm going to, but if asked I will tell. I also give details when asked. I incorporate masturbation into sex anyway, so it's not something I feel the need to hide. And as far as the porn goes, I'm open about what I watch as well.
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    2013-02-08 16-47-14

    I have told her what porn I watch But I also know that she isn't interested at all in much of the porn I watch. I tend to watch a lot of messy cummy porn and she isn't into cum.
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    2013-12-23 9-39-57-

    I've had partners who didn't like my flavor of porn, but it didn't bother them that I watched it by myself. They just didn't want to watch it with me, or try the acts I watched with me. On the flip side, I've felt like that about others' porn before too.
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    That is how we are She simply isn't interested, she doesn't care that I watch it. It just doesn't do anything for her.
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    2015-08-04 22-26-11

    I dont hide it....but wont if the kid is awake.. if it's just theof us in front of the tv, I'll sometimes just reach into my shorts and start to stroke it....
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    2015-08-25 13-13-47

    I do when the are awake I just hide in the bathroom. Sometimes I need that release in the morning. When it is just me and the wife I will something stroke or play with myself while we sit watching tv. But I won't actually go all out and start jerking off.
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