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2011-02-08 19-46-13

What do you all prefer... If you are a D do you prefer your sub to be blindfolded in anticipation of what is to come. Or do you want to see the look in their eyes. If you are a sub, what would you prefer. Blindfolded or not? Just a quick question on my mind. :D Most will say both depending on the mood right? LOL :P
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2011-02-09 18-10-55

*If*..I were a sub, definitly blindfolded or else I'd probably freak out & run!
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    2011-02-10 10-43-26

    Yes, but I do like to look at eyes..
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    2011-02-11 2-01-05-

    *singing***getting to know you!!!!
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    2011-02-11 4-54-09-

    Hee hee..What color are your eyes? :)
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    2011-02-11 4-59-20-

    blue/green..depends on the light
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    2011-02-11 17-59-11

    cool me too.. except they go grey from time to time as well..
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    2011-02-12 4-43-51-

    And Blue and greens? Ocean below the storm...
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    2011-02-12 13-42-46

    my boys always say they are the calm before the storm and they know if they go steel grey to run and hide where i cant reach them
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    2011-02-12 17-32-27

    Since I am a Switch, I shall answer both. When I am Dominant, I prefer both, there is the delight in knowing she will not see the whip, or the hand, or ice cube... Then there is the point where she is tied down, and cannot stop me, the look in her eyes as she knows I will use her the way I choose... As for when I am Submissive, I prefer the blindfold, or lights out. The more sensory deprived I am, the more I fall into submission.
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    2011-02-12 18-10-51

    I didn't know that's what switch meant..thx.
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    2011-02-13 22-47-59

    that's it for later tonight
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    2011-03-23 16-15-18

    You are welcome.. A switch is someone who can be either dominant or submissive. My wife and I are both switches, when she is in Domme mode, she is my Mistress. When I had a Submissive, I was her Sir.(not my wife) I also Dominate my wife, when she feels the need to be...restrained.
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    2011-04-27 5-39-45-

    I would probably be a sub..
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    2011-07-27 12-40-40

    And there is nothing wrong with that at all... There are dominants, switches, and submissives. Each need the other in symbiosis. No label is "better" than the other,for without submissives, dominants would have no to dominate, etc. And being a switch isnt all x/x. People tend to favor or the other a bit, yet retain the ability to become more dominant or submissive as they wish.
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    2012-01-05 20-20-04

    My story here that makes me want to learn this is..that I've always been intrigued, yet never did. I dated a guy a few months ago that let it be known early on that he liked all this bondage stuff.. and had a hard time coming if it was straight sex. So, I tried it with him..he got out his box of stuff. After getting my butt wacked with a crop, he put me on my knees with the crop in my mouth..blindfolded me, put cuffs on behind my back..and started tying me up like a corsett with ropes..very, very tightly..then (Ididn't expect) he put clips on my nipples..and then! (me in bad pain) he hung weights on the clips and ALL I laying on the floor with him ing my name & cutting all the ropes off..I passed out! I couldn't breath, became very light headed and then with the sharp piercing PAIN from my nipples to my brain..lights out. Scared me to death. We broke up..because he needs that life..I really liked him.
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    2012-02-18 20-50-09

    it's unfortunate he didn't bother to educate you properly esp. about safe words it sounds like you were overwhelmed I hope you can find what it is you've come here for.
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    2012-07-05 6-29-14-

    once again I agree...but... I think the psychological aftermath is probably what she is trying to understand now. I totally agree that was way to much for a first time experience. My understanding was that there was no saftey precautions taken before hand. And all though she agreed to continue with the scene(hate to it that because that's not what it is), I would almost consider that border-lined assault. He seemed like he was a very uneducated, or worse, un-caring, Dom. My heart goes out to you Mountain Gal. Butsilver lining is that you are now more curious about the safe possibilities of this lifestyle.
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    2012-10-22 0-02-29-

    that is very true blind and i agree it is very close to assault I wouldn't him a Dom he doesn't deserve that consideration healing can be a challenging process and i appauld her for that she needs to see what an ass he was and that when a D/s relationship is done 'right',it can be a beautiful thing. Although she may never be 'into' pain
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    2013-04-07 20-10-19

    yes... I couldn't think for a better word to his dominate assault on her. Being a student of psychology, no I am not a shrink, but my best guess would say she will be dealing with the emotional backlash from this until she understands what truely happened there. IMHO it was rape. But she is on the right path to understanding a new facet of her psyche. One, with proper, knowledge could be very benificial to her. :)
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    2014-02-09 21-07-16

    Whoa! Too much, too soon = not good Master and I have tried much in the past year, and have discovered some things that work, and some that do not. Nipple pinching, great, nipple clamps, not. Although I have not played with anyone else, I imagine it is very important to tailor the play to the person. Unless the sub has experienced the same play with another, IMHO, the Dom must take it slowly. Much fun can be had with restraint and pain, but most must be worked up to, and for first time play, eye contact is, IMHO, essential. I do hope you can view thisexperience as an isolated incident, and use it as a tool to create clearer communication with a future play partner. Communication is key.
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    2015-06-18 11-08-36

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    2015-11-29 12-37-24

    I would have to agree... When introducing someone to the world of kink/bdsm, you should use small steps. The spankingtime, talk about it, the crop the next, talk about it. I am sorry for your experience. I hope it doesnt color you off from trying to explore more fun things.
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