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2011-02-08 18-09-07

definitions please I would like everone's definition of Kink and/or Vanilla. just a conversation starter I consider vanilla just regular missionary dick in pussy. not too fast or hard. anything other than that is kink.
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2011-02-09 12-00-10

in my world vanilla is anything that does not involve bondage, force or deliberate pain.
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2011-02-10 5-19-36-

not into giving or receiving?
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2011-02-10 8-11-23-

i can give it. just not take it. Pain that is.
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2011-02-10 15-45-22

it's not for everyone no harm, no foul. Do you enjoy giving it or is it just something you do cause she likes it?
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2011-02-10 21-29-34

I have to really be in the mood to give. Also, i know i am a lot stronger than i look and i am afraid i will hurt her. so i have to hold back. She does like for me to choke her. I like that too.
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2011-02-11 12-48-08

lots of people think that they are worried they will take the pain too far. I am not into choking per se but I do enjoy the pressure of a hand on my throat.
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    2011-02-11 22-14-05

    what about oral and anal? so that would include homosexual sex as kinky? what about a couple that is strictly D/s, would you're definition of vanilla be kink to them? is this question totally subjective to the group it's being asked of and the society it's apart of?
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    2011-02-12 16-16-16

    I would consider Anal a kink Most vanilla couple would participate in anal. I just want everyones personal definition. you don't have to agree with mine. That is just the way i have thought of it. I am from a small town and havne't had much thought about homosexual. So after thinking about it, Homo is not a kink unless you are spanking or other stuff as well. I think.
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    2011-02-23 3-32-18-

    So...this is a majority thang? I mean, I tend to think "most" have some sort of "kink."
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    2011-05-07 11-41-42

    i tend i aree and was being a little antagonistic
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    2011-09-28 7-54-30-

    I think everyone is kinky The only thing is society tells them it is taboo,or wrong, so they don't do what they want.
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    2012-04-26 19-50-17

    It is a majority thing If most would do it, it's mainstream (read as vanilla) and not a kink.
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    2012-09-01 1-34-27-

    Mmmkay I hate split the short hairs here but...."most" have enjoyed having their hands some point in time....whether by just another's hands or by ropes/cuffs/scarfs or whatever... it whatever you like...
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    2013-05-09 10-22-26

    Have they now? You been out doing surveys without telling us the results?
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    2013-06-02 15-12-38

    Indeed, I have.
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    2014-03-10 17-03-44

    I told you already... my findings...most think it is hawt to be restrained in some way or another on occasion....or DO the restraining.
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    2015-07-10 20-25-58

    I completely agree... I think power exchange is normal in our everyday activities and definetly normal in "vanilla" sex. It just isn;t defined as such.
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    Some kink research This has some demographic and prevalence information. I will post some info, but please do read the link because context matters. It is interesting to watch the numbers whittle away, lol. The numbers: "First, about half the population, regardless of gender, seems to incorporate some kind of mild pain play (e.g. biting) into their sex lives, although they probably do not consider this to be kinky, and may not even identify it as pain-play. Second, roughly x%-x% of the population (orin three topeople) has some recurring fantasy or erotic impulse about BDSM, and in general the men are more likely to identify as dominant or sadistic in this fantasy world, and the women as submissive or masochistic. (It might be noteworthy that in Hamilton's study, the men report ever-having-had masochistic fantasies at about the same rate as the women, but to a large degree they report no longer having them.) Somewhere in the neighborhood of x%-x% of the population has at some point acted on these desires in a way that is more extreme than biting or, probably, spanking. They see themselves as having tried practices that they think of as kinky. Finally, between x.x% and x% of the population (orin about thirty to sixty people) acts on these fantasies with some degree of frequency. This is the group that most likely self-identifies as being kinky or “into BDSM,” and this is the group that subsequent studies focusing on kinky people are probably drawing on.
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