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2011-02-08 17-45-25

Writing assignments I have a Dom friend who is looking to give his sub writing assignments; the first one was an erotic haiku. I had a Dom who had me write about stuff like my fantasies, but I can't remember them now. Anyone have writing assignment suggestions?
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2011-02-09 11-14-15

........ no however .... ......... I will read what you post !! "THANKS" for saying she is cute !! I really am into it so much, really do not know how to handle it ........
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    2011-02-09 11-41-04

    sure... (BTW Great to see you again) • What drives you to submit? • What are important characteristics in a Dominant to you? • What are your weaknesses as a sub? • What are your strengths as a sub? • Do you have any secrets you are comfortable sharing at this time? • What things/ activities do you wish to try? What have you done and liked? What have you done and hated? Why?
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    2011-02-10 6-32-52-

    Good ones! Thanks. Do you do writing assignments for your Dom?
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    2011-02-10 7-32-31-

    I don't but i sort of wish i did. I find writing cathartic but always wish for some direction, some motivator, an order? I don't tend to just write on my own, an order to do so would be one of those orders that are for the benefit of the sub, a "your-own-best-interest" kind of thing.
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    2011-02-10 18-39-07

    It definitely is But I think it also helps the relationship in general because it can give the Dom ideas for being a better Dom. It's a nice, kinky way to communicate your desires.
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    2011-02-11 11-15-07

    I find I write differently in different places, too... that is, I write things in a blog/journal that I don't write in email, or wouldn't bring up while talking. It's nice to have a variety of outlets.
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    2011-02-11 21-53-02

    If he's only given one so far, perhaps it's a bit early to be looking for outside suggestions. He should start with what he genuinely wants to know. Ask her about x, have her describe y, and so on. Describing a fantasy is nice, or her opinions/thoughts on something that's important to him... it's hard to give more specific suggestions without knowing either of them. I write all the time for him, but I don't think I've ever been given an assignment. I always have a lot to say. ;) Oh, once I was asked for a particular kind of story, and once for a collection of a certain genre of photo. I write up any other sort of assignment I get, of course.
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    2011-02-12 15-48-01

    sub assignment I've done this with my subs in the past: re, from your teenage years, the episode or event of absolute, utter, greatest, total, absolute shame/ embarrassment - no matter how much it makes you cringe, no matter how deeply you've buried it, no matter how horrified you are at revealing this deepest darkest terrible secret. I bring this up early in a relationship with a sub ... tell her don't answer right away but start thinking about it now, dredge up all those memories so that, when I do ask, she'll be prepared to reveal this deepest darkest secret part of herself, without reservation. My philosophy as a dom is that my sub must be absolutely naked to me at all times, whether or not she has clothes on - naked, in terms of thoughts, feelings, emotions, memories. (I've always given this assignment as an oral report - but I suppose it could work just as well in written form.)
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    2011-02-22 8-50-22-

    sincere question ... what sort of aftercare do you give once a question like that is answered? Questions like that tend to come along with a whole can of psych related worms. I was just curious if you gloss over it, focus on the negative aspects, give positive assurance ...
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    2011-04-27 13-52-14

    aftercare A whole can of psych related worms indeed! That's why I give my subs plenty of time to think about it first, a few months, usually. When I feel there is sufficient trust in our D/s relationship, that's when I ask (not demand) that she answer that question. Putting her in a position of serious vulnerability - but she knows she is completely safe and protected. Aftercare: lots of hugs, kisses, cuddles, talking - whatever is needed. (And I make sure we'll have a large block of time, a whole day and night, say, without interruptions.) This is not something I do lightly, nor something I do with every sub. Think of it as emotional S&M.
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    2011-09-22 0-56-38-

    thanks for the info I was just curious. Shameful in our youth can equal trauma dwelling on it as an adult. Huge trust issue. Not sure I could do that with someone who was not a lover as well as a dom. Glad to see you are not willy nilly with this kind of question. Obviously you are no McDom!! :)
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    2011-11-06 6-58-50-

    McDom LOL That's Mayor McDom to you. Would you like to supersize that spanking? (Or buttplug?) ... uh, can't think of anymore. It's been so long since I've actually been to a McD's. -------------------------- Thanks for the compliment :) I've never had a sub who wasn't also a lover - or, rather, being a lover is part of the "job description" of being my sub. I don't really enjoy "just sex" - (does that make me a wussy dom?) - there has to be emotional engagement/intimacy. When you refer to a dom who is not also a lover, do you mean there is no sex, or do you differentiate between being lovers and being sex partners?
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    2012-07-06 19-13-55

    I just take my vanilla lovers to the next level I am more bottom than sub. I know there are some that have lovers and then they have doms and theare quite seperate. I know a lot that have a sort of FWB type relationships with their doms. For me, the level of intimacy required for really good D/s play requires a stong vanilla intimacy as well. Hopefully that makes a little bit of sense!
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    2012-11-15 4-47-19-

    vanilla Yes, that does make sense. I used to have vanilla relationships that included some D/s - now I have D/s relationships that include some vanilla. Example (and pardon my French) - sometimes I want to fuck my sub, sometimes I want to make love with her. Giving my sub a good bdsm working over, then taking her to bed for very slow and tender lovemaking. (After spanking, clamps, wax, etc, she's VERY responsive to the softest caress... ;) that vanilla with spice? ("Mmm, vanilla..." Homer Simpson drooling.) I was chatting on this forum with a sub whose dom also had a non-sub GF. The GF had met the sub and had full knowledge of the dom's activities, though was not involved in any way. I've considered having more thansub at a time, though I've never tried it. But having a vanilla AND a D/s relationship at the same time ... pretty sure that's not for me.
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