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mackel

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2011-02-08 18-40-25

What is your definition of a master/slave relationship? Does the dominance and control engulf the entire relationship, or just the sexual aspect of the relationship?
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2011-02-09 14-41-58

In my arena, it only exists in the bedroom. I get to take it to any place I want to, but only there.
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  • garda

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    2011-02-10 1-20-26-

    only my thoughts and I will put a disclaimer on this that my thoughts are ever-evolving with regard to BDSM. What I would have answered a year ago, is not the same as what I will say today nor will it remain the same next year as I learn more and am exposed to more. But in my mind, a master/slave agreement or relationship is where the slave has given up all control to the master. Now, mind you, this is still consensual and based on understanding of limits, etc. But it affects not only their sexual life, but their daily existence and perhaps even their more spiritual side. The slave chooses to give themselves completely, mind, body, soul and heart to a person who is worthy of that trust and responsibility. It is not to be taken lightly.
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    mintz

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    2011-02-10 5-35-48-

    examples are going to vary I wouldn't even know where to begin with specifics. What I mean by that statement is that to me, a master/slave dynamic has no limits, other than the ones that the master sets or that were set before the relationship began. In other words, at the beginning of a scene, the slave does not present a list of limits, the slave trusts the master to know where those are. It's sort of like a personal trainer. I don't tell my personal trainer I can only do 50 reps, I trust her to know that I can actually do 100. We don't discuss it before I do them, I just do what she says because she knows me better than I know myself. This is a difficult thing to explain and it is only my way of thinking. And I may be completely wrong.
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    2011-02-10 19-16-42

    Well Brute. There is such a thing as a Slave Uprising if said slave is not having their needs met by appropriate care and consideration. And I know we all have our own opinions of the "true" meaning of such a relationship. To me it is of course determined by the people involved. Some Masters demand complete control down to when you use the bathroom at work, if you are allowed to work..Some allow greater free reign trusting to the slaves discretion..Is either wrong?
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    jankowski

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    2011-02-11 11-39-46

    I was talking about that below in another thread I had a GF that wanted me to control <u. Where we ate, what movies we saw, what we bought, when we got kinky, how we got kinky. Yeesh! I couldn't stand it! Dom during fun time, I can deal with. All the time? No. I like a 2 way relationship. Although once, just once, before I die, I'd like to be totally dominated by a woman. I'm curious what it would be like.
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    2011-02-11 23-03-24

    Yeah me too :) Thanks..
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  • burston

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    2011-02-12 10-30-04

    Good points to ponder Gunnr... but I don't think a right or wrong answer exists. Like techno said... a master/slave relationship's (like any other relationship) boundaries and/or expectations can and will evolve over time. Thanks for you input.
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  • caron

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    2011-02-14 3-01-15-

    with regards to limits most slaves (and many masters) would want to set hard limits, I would imagine. What they are -- that's different for each relationship. So examples of hard limits: no knife/blood play no breath play no additional people no public humiliation The thing is, the hard limits for person would ruin the kink for another. This is why those limits HAVE to be fully discussed in a BDSM relationship. No assuming your partner knows you dont want something.
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  • mariana

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    2011-05-14 19-32-25

    whatever the couple defines it as each Master/slave relatinship will have it's own definition IMO.
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  • lorraine

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    2011-10-03 11-02-45

    I realize that... hence why I asked "what is YOUR definition."
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    2012-05-03 19-12-37

    Oh right... well i don't have .. i am not in a Master/slave relationship and i don't think i would ever define any of my D/s relationships and or play involvements as such. The only label I feel atatched to Master/slave isof at least a full time relationship and i might even say there is (to me) a built in implcation of a x/x set up) but not sure on that. We play Master/slave but i don't see us in those roles all the time... the extend of my relastionships are top/bottom or Dom/sub or simply play partners, defined.
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  • grim

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    2013-02-13 12-08-05

    thats a good one I bet every answer is just a bit different For me, there are x basic categories in the bdsm world sexual tops and bottoms. Folks who enjoy kinky sex with a bdsm edge. I see a bottom as someone who during sex might initiate certain acts, even though she was in a "submissive" role. Dom's and subs. More formal and encompassing all aspects of they're sexuallity. A sub would be under the Doms unquestioned control during sex and subject to control in the everyday world with regards to sex. For example being told to go without underwear, or to masturbate at lunch, or something sexy but away from the bedroom. Master / slave. Total control. As much as the master wants to exert. all of the above within agreed upon limits and with continuing consent
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  • noguchi

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    2013-12-29 18-09-40

    I think along that same line, hnter and I have always liked this definition by Master Skip Chasey: Top/bottom "About the physical body" Dominant/submissive "About the mental body" Master/slave "About the spiritual body" But I think you can have myriads of combinations of those things and it whatever you want too. I've learned a lot and I still have a lot to learn. I actually look forward to having a more spiritual connection to some For me to be a slave is likely going to also involve a deeper emotion, perhaps even "love". (eep)
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    bihm

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    2014-10-25 11-45-57

    ack ... Love....the l word and I dont mean lesbian I like that definition Master is so intriuging, and so damn scary. Someone trusting someone else that much is mind boggling. It's also probably the closest to defining love, if love can be defined, we can get. At least in our world anyway
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    Srsly I don't know why, but that word scares me more than a x foot bullwhip, a set of clover clamps, and a ball-gag. And I agree, for me, a Master is something I still cannot boggle having. But I have been proven wrong many times before and I suspect I will continue to be surprised. In a way, I find it fascinating, but most of me says "never gonna happen". I just don't know that I have that much faith.
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