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wehmeier

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2011-02-08 18-14-20

The other day, someone posted here asking if real-life females with barely any limits exist. And quite a few posters answered in the affirmative. The thread then morphed into a debate as to whether the OP's direct and interrogatory approach towards potential play partners reflected a lack of caring about them as people. I admit, I was of the proponents of that theory. But I may have been wrong. Sure, he *seemed* to be the type to immediately talk limits and find what the potential partner would bring to the table for him. At first glance, it did look, to me, like he had no concern whatsoever for his potential partner as a person. But he later clarified that his preferred method is to first find out a potential partner's limits, thereby saving a lot of time getting to know someone on a personal level only to find out later that they're not compatible. If he was able to quickly ascertain that the potential partner was on the same wavelength as him, he'd then take the time to get to know them as a person. Now this is not my personal preference. In fact, if someone approaches me and immediately starts in with what I "the kinky interview process", I walk away. But I may be a bit extreme in my resolve to be treated like an individual first, and only later a possible kink partner. And what that poster said the other day did make sense. He was simply trying to expedite matters and keep all parties from wasting their time engaging in the "getting to know you" dance. Does anyone have any thoughts regarding this? Are you offended when someone almost immediately begins asking your limits or running down the BDSM checklist with you? Or do you appreciate the fact that they're getting down to business and know that you can get to know each other better after you've found you're compatible. Good holy crap I'm wordy with my top posts. Sorry about that, all.
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2011-02-09 12-08-09

I'd say that perhaps if you are looking for something extreme it may be best the way he handles the issue. I missed the thread in question so I don't know. But if you looking for something relatively common or just looking to explore, I agree that perhaps it's best to get to know then first. It may be nice to know that the relationship will never get to the point that you are looking for from the start though if it is something uncommon that you want to try.
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2011-02-10 7-01-58-

That's a good point. And he was indeed looking to do some fairly extreme things. What he said made sense, too. And it got me to thinking how nice it would be to expedite matters even if the only thing we're looking for is to explore more common kink elements. It just took me a minute to get his point, since I need to have some type of personal bond before I can even discuss kinky possibilities. I'm just going to get a t-shirt made that says "I'm kinky. Get to know me!" :)
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  • deboy

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    2011-02-10 21-29-42

    Yes I am offended. I hate talking about my kink J/K LOL no I personally am not offended gee who would have guessed that. *smooch* How are you sexy thing you?
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    2011-02-11 12-50-50

    And she's quick on the draw with 'em, too! *tapes "potential pincushion" sign onto Mist's back* ;)
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    Indeed, Travel much? :-P
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    2011-02-12 9-13-36-

    only if you can buy the ticket. Right now we are trying to buy a house. I get up to Denver frequently though. Wishing to be back in Seattle though. I here you are going up there soon.
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    gillings

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    2011-02-13 21-01-04

    yes, hoping to be in Seattle soon but it now looks like it may get pushed back a little longer. I don't like second-guessing my decisions, but it would make a lot of sense to wait until the start of next summer. I really wanted to be there by the end of this year. We'll see. I heard you met a new friend last weekend, she had nothing but nice things to say about you, goes along with what others had mentioned. *wink*
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    2011-02-13 22-28-39

    I did meet a new Friend Just a few days ago as a matter of fact. I really like her too and am hoping to get to visit with her a bit more and show her around as well. Seattle is a great place to visit but I would be happy if I could get or of the seattlites to come over here. We have been working on that for a while now. I hate it when trips get canceled at the last minute.
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    2011-03-20 4-33-03-

    how far from Denver are you? I did a couple years in COS, was a nice city and kinda miss it. I miss the mountains mainly though and while I was there I missed the open water.. so I'm hoping Seattle will be a nice compromise. I've heard about your skill with your needles from a couple people that i hold in high esteem and hey had high praise. I'd like to learn about that. For example, how deep do yuo generally go? It is essentially a surface piercing each time or more like an accupuncture inseretion? I'd assume a little of both depending on the locations?
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    condit

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    2011-05-13 19-09-50

    so what gague needles do you generally use then? I've heard tell of hooks as well? I'd love to see that. Im afraid it's a little above me right now though, but not something that's outright out of the question.. just not now.
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    godines

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    2011-08-04 3-24-31-

    I generaly use x or x I just picked up some xs and x's the x's are short stubby we are going to create a subbie bullseye and throw the tiny ones or blow them at the targets. I haven't done hooks. I have only seen them on the internet and talked to a few people that have done them. They are supposed to be pretty intense.
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    raab

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    2011-11-03 20-51-23

    reasonably small gauges. we used to get the frill -picks [applebees-style frilly toothpicks] and use them as darts, load them in a straw and shoot them like a blowgun LOL.. they sting for a good second or three and have real good range and accuracy for cheap *wink* Certainly interested in the needles though. Like you, I've seen the hooks on TV and online, but never in person. I'm not ready to try that, not sure I ever will be, but it looks like nothing else.
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  • preszler

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    2012-06-23 10-25-24

    the dart thing does sound fun from both sides. LOL They have enough weight to carry at all? Without stabilizers it's very hard to be accurate at all as well. How may needles do you generally stick in a cushion? Is there any chance I could get you to send me [or post] a picture ofof your cushions?
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  • schmuker

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    2013-10-11 3-21-05-

    Interesting. my nips already done, occasionally think of getting them done vertiy as well but the righthas/had issues healing and not sure I'm really up for all that again. Never got infected but it took twice as long as it should have to actually heal. Then I stretched them to xg and had the exact same issue, plus it started to migrate after the stretch. The left has been a model piercing though, as were thein my ear. Go figure.
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  • nunziata

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    I love piercings but I am not into being the pincushion for needle play. I like my piercings to be a bit more permanent. I hope to add more piercings soon too.
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    I forget what they are ed but the crosses that you can get with both horizontal and vertical piercings in the nipple just look cool. every time I see them I think about getting it done, but then think about the pain in the ass it's been healing thatand back off. The pain wasn't bad, honestly, but it took a lot of work and it was always sore. All the grease and oil in the air at work doesn't help any, makes healing anything a little rough.
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    I have seen them done and thought about it but ruled it out. Ilike being able to wear jewelry from mine and playing with them is so much easier with just thebarbell. I still have issues from time to time and I have had mine pierced for a year and a half now. The other piercings take less time to heal and I get a lot out of them.
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