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lois

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2011-02-08 20-16-57

I forgive myself for being oh-so-emotionally healthy and burying issues rather than dealing with them in the first damn place, and then being surprised when they pop back up again. I forgive myself for not speaking up when I was seriously uncomfortable, and for falling into a serious funk because of it (pretty much regressing a whole goddamn year). I know everyone deals with trauma differently, but surely after (almost) a year, I'd be over and done with this crap?
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gesualdi

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2011-02-09 18-44-02

oh lordy no. A trauma can revisit you for a long time. And if it was a long term trauma like years of abuse, you'll have to figure as many years of recovery to feel better. 5 years of abuse means 5 years of therapy, at least. It's like the body has to purge and regrow. You'll get through, my dear. Knowing that you have this buried and were avoiding it really is half the battle. Be gentle with yourself!! Maybe you buried it because you weren't ready to deal. You see it now because you are strong and ready!
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  • Ashraf

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    2011-02-09 19-06-28

    Thanks, that helps me feel a bit better. I think I may have to try seein a therapist again. I tried talking immediately after everything happened, but I couldn't. Just absolutely could not get words out. (Didn't help that of the therapists I tried out decided that it was 'theraputic' to insult my intelligence and tell me because I had 'issues' to apply for disability. Gah, worst spent $200 ever.)
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  • giglia

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    2011-02-10 12-18-28

    don't put yourself on an agenda it's going to take as much time as it takes, and stressing over "I should be over this by now" just makes you feel worse, not better.
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    thornsbury

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    2011-02-11 4-16-44-

    agree with fd... I lost my brother in '89. I still think of him as on vacation. When family begin to reminisce about the good ol days, ducks disappears for a while. I still can't truly face it and it's been almost 20 years. Others have passed on in the meantime and I was able to grieve, say goodbye, and remember them with a smile. Some things are just impossible I think. Good luck silly. I think therapy is a good step for you if you are ready and as someone suggested in a previous thread (not sure when it was), find therapists with free consultations so you can interview them to see if s/he is a good fit for you. :)
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    newstrom

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    2011-02-11 17-28-11

    I forgive myself for really really wanting this pig:
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    therese

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    2011-02-12 9-58-38-

    awe OD... I think you would be good for the gal! Teach her up right quick like! :D
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    howdyshell

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    2011-02-12 11-35-36

    I wonder how disciplines a pig. I bet a bite from a pig would hurt like hell. "You bite me again & I am taking away your tutu for a week. And your cell phone too."
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    ginyard

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    2011-02-16 5-29-02-

    Yeah! You should adopt her if only to get her into some more appropriate outfits. Pants!
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    2011-02-26 23-54-34

    I forgive you for posting a PetFinders link now I want these
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    gietzen

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    2011-05-24 11-51-25

    no doubt on pet finder link... i only read the bio on petunia the pig, cause im safe there :) i cant even go to the humane shelter anymore...sigh, and forgettaboutit rescue sites...tho i do send in donations for vet care
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    2011-06-29 2-29-07-

    yes, please Rescue that pig from that hideous outfit.
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  • lindler

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    2011-07-27 5-10-44-

    I forgive my daughter for overusing the word "sorry" this morning. She was repeating sorrysorrysorrysorrysorrysorrysorry...etc, for about x minutes...and again. Each time she'd end with an "I'm SORRRRRRy". She's x, the apologies should not be dripping with sarcasm. Maybe it's an age thing...I'm not computing it appropriately...and I didn't realize what a raw nerve she hit until she did it. And the worst part...I can't re why she was saying sorry. sigh.
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    2012-01-05 17-07-16

    The truth is she probably can't remember what she is sorry for either
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    2012-03-11 22-48-18

    no kidding about those shows.. my daughter mimics Hannah Montana all the time.... grrrr
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    2012-12-31 9-22-05-

    Grrr is right They are always yelling and are so rude to each other on those shows. Noever has a conversation. They just smart off to each other. Then the x yr old smarts off to me and ... grrr.
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    2014-09-01 23-41-21

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